Monday, December 9, 2024
Boats - 1
Sunday, December 8, 2024
My Father's Pubs - 2
My father was a lunchtime drinker. Perhaps this went back to his days as a ships' agent on the coast of Eastern Africa, where he would start work very early in the morning and then take time away from his desk through the heat of the day. Lunchtime was also when he entertained the captains of the ships that came in to his agency, taking them to the club before bringing them home for lunch.
So I have many happy memories of time spent with him in this pub, the successor to the Three Oaks Hotel after my parents moved into Hastings Old Town. It's the Cinque Ports Arms in All Saints Street, Hastings, a small, single-bar pub with panelled walls and a perfect pub atmosphere. In it....
....my father (right) would meet his friends, particularly Gordon Faulkner (second from right). Being such good, regular customers meant that they were well looked after by the landlord (left) and his wife. What was special about the pub was that it didn't bother with the inessentials, like food; if existed for its beer and its atmosphere.My father spent the fading years of his life in Maldon, Essex, where his lunchtime beer was taken at the Blue Boar hotel. Although he walked the half-a-mile from his house to the pub, by this time his hand was shaky so the bar maid, a lovely Spanish lady called Inez, would pour him a three-quarters pint of Adnam's bitter and then top it up.
Saturday, December 7, 2024
A Lone Redshank
I keep insisting that the number of shore birds we're seeing is significantly down on previous years. There is only the occasional curlew, we've a serious shortage of redshanks, the sanderlings seem to have gone AWOL, the turnstones are finding stones elsewhere, and the oystercatchers are all on holiday at Littleferry. Even the starlings are missing, as are the rock doves, a flock of which were here only a week or so ago.
Look up, though, and skein after skein of pink-footed geese is passing over, their numbers in the hundreds. Thank goodness that at least one species appears to be thriving.Thursday, December 5, 2024
Voices from the Past
"I was teaching at Goromonzi secondary school at the time. I remember Bernard Mizeki well - it was one of the few schools that were good enough to invite my African students for a tennis match! Goromonzi was an 'African' secondary government school but our links to schools such as Bernard Mizeki and Peterhouse were strong."
Memories, memories.... How good it is occasionally to sit in the sun, as I am as I write this, and remember those far off, happy days.
Wednesday, December 4, 2024
My Father's Pubs - 1
That my father found so much pleasure in a good English pub may, at least in part, be due to this pub, the Ship Inn in Caister, the small Norfolk town from which his branch of the Hayletts came.
His father, against family tradition, had gone 'deep sea' rather than join a local fishing industry which, after the loss of the herring, was in severe decline, yet he found his wife in this pub, for Edith, my grandmother, worked there. And it was to Caister and this pub that my father returned on the leaves - holidays - he had while working for forty years on the east coast of Africa.
Pubs didn't exist in East Africa, so my first memories of my father's enjoyment of good company was at the Mombasa Sports Club. He didn't just relax there: he was one of the club's cricket umpires, and used to challenge my brother and I to explain the leg-before-wicket rules.
While my father drank with his friends in the bar, my mother, Richard and I would enjoy a drink and the club's chipped potatoes under the mango trees that shaded the outfield.
My first memory of my father in an English pub was soon after my parents retired from East Africa, when they rented a cottage in the Kent village of Appledore. While he did like the Red Lion in the village, he preferred The Ferry Inn at Stone on the Isle of Oxney, a short drive from Appledore. He was so favoured by the publican, George, that he was often to be found in the bar long after closing time in the afternoon.
They bought their first retirement house in the village of Three Oaks, just outside Hastings. Its only services were a small 'halt' on the Hastings to Ashford railway - a 'halt' being a station where one held out one's hand if one wanted the train to stop - and the Three Oaks Hotel where my father spent about two hours at lunchtime every weekday. While he amused himself thus, my mother used the railway to commute up to London on three days of the weeks to work for an association which represented Conservative peers.
My father did, occasally, take a break from the hotel, driving to this pub, the White Hart, on the Hastings to Rye main road. The bitter (beer) there didn't suit him, so he often drank bottled Guiness instead. When we first went to the pub - by this time I was old enough legally to enjoy a pint with him - it was very run down, the main area in the pub being split into three rooms, the saloon bar being the place the women drank and the public bar where workmen drank. However, a revolution followed when it was taken over by a young couple, the Richardsons, who knocked through the interior walls to make a large bar area, and who developed the pub by, for example, creating a lovely pub garden at the rear of the premises where guests' children could play.
Monday, December 2, 2024
Memories
I have memories from my youth of the excitement at the dawn of each new day; of an anticipation at what it might bring that sent me running out to meet it. In mid-life I have memories of the uplift in spirits that came with it, a warm joy which often lasted through the day. Now, faced with such silent, passing beauty, I turn and look back, seeking the memories of similar dawns and, through them, of the places where I stood witness.
Sunday, December 1, 2024
Loch Fleet
It's weeks since we last walked at Loch Fleet so today, with the weather set fair, we took our usual route, starting on the northern side of the loch and walking towards the sea. The shingle banks in the picture are often a convenient roost for waders but the only ones we saw, a small flock of what might have been sanderlings, seemed in a hurry to be elsewhere.
This extensive area was occupied by small groups of widgeon, perhaps a hundred in all, a few gulls, and half-a-dozen cormorants.









